Mary Emma Garvin [Eddy]
* This biography and photos of Mary Eddy were contributed by Julia Costell, the Granddaughter of Mary Eddy - May 22, 2022. (All photos are Julia's, except the first and last two)
Mary Eddy (b. 26 Dec. 1896, d. 4 Aug. 1990) in 1965 in Ainab (Photo by Joan Landis) |
Mary Emma Garvin was, like her husband William Alfred Eddy, born to a Presbyterian missionary family.
Mary Emma Garvin at Wooster College, Ohio. Ca. 1914, age 17 |
Her father, James Francis Garvin, and mother, Emma Frances Goodale, established one of the first public schools in Chile. Interestingly, Emma was born in Marash, Turkey in 1861 (another story). Mary was born in Valparaiso, Chile, December 26, 1896, the seventh of nine children (seven of whom were brothers!). As with her siblings, she was sent to the U.S. to attend high school at the College of Wooster in Ohio, well known for educating the children of missionaries.
At high school, she met the child of missionaries in Syria, Bill Eddy, who became her lifelong partner. He was a good friend of her older brother. While Bill transferred to Princeton his sophomore year of college, Mary Garvin completed her degree at Wooster. Upon graduation, Bill enlisted in the Marines and days before he was to be shipped out he sent a telegram for Mary to meet him at Union Station in Washington D.C – they were married the next day: October 5, 1917.
The couple had four children: Bill, Mary “Cita”, Jack, and Carmen.
ca. 1940: (L-R standing) Jack, Mary Cita, Bill jr, (seated) Bill, Carmen, Mary |
Her life adventures are chronicled with those of her husband in An Arabian Knight by Thomas J. Lippman (Selwa Press 2008). More personally, she was a lifetime avid birdwatcher and sent regular reports to the National Audubon Society when living in Jidda. She was also an intrepid hiker, guiding visiting scholars, friends, and visitors to natural, geological, and archaeological sites encountered in Saudi Arabia and Lebanon.
Bill and Mary 1957 |
In addition to her native Spanish and English, she spoke serviceable French and enough Arabic to navigate Arab markets. After Bill died in May of 1962, Mary continued living in their apartment in Ras Beirut near the AUB Hospital and enjoying summers in Ainab. Family and friends were frequent recipients of “Aunt Mary’s” generous hospitality. She was a prominent member of Beirut’s social world with a schedule that left her visiting granddaughters exhausted.
Above Byblos in Smar Jbeil, 1966, Emmy Boynton (Front Left) Mary Eddy behind her, Doris Dodge, Ann Gordon, Isobel Fistere (standing), Joan Landis (photo Josh Landis) |
Mary Eddy and Archie Crawford at the Artist and Art Party (early 1965 Joan Landis) |
In 1972 she moved to Hanover, NH, to be closer to her family. She eventually retired to Meadow Lakes, N.J., where she died on August 4, 1990.
That is indeed a photo of Archie Crawford, my Jiddi. Laura P Crawford
ReplyDeleteThanks, Laura. Could he be Picasso?
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ReplyDeleteBetsy Decherd Lane wrote on May 24, 2022
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Subject: Lebanon
Thanks, Josh for this post - so full of pictures and history. It is always fun to be reminded of better days in that beautiful, but fragile country. There are so many different threads and connections. With the Eddy's for example. My parents knew Bill and Mary through mission connections, when the Eddy's were in Sidon. Carmen was my room-mate at ACS. George and I played tennis with Mary Eddy in Jedda, etc. etc.
Salaams -
Betsy